FEATURES: Have You Said 'I LOVE YOU' Enough?

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Have it ever crossed your mind that someone you hate the most could be someone you really love? Have it ever crossed your mind that you will regret all the bad things you've done to them when you realize that they actually love you? And have you ever regretted how rare it is for you to express your love even for someone you do love? For the last case, i have.

When all the people in the world are busy with their effort to success. When we are all busy concerning about our safety, concerning about terrorism, global economic crisis, hatred and greed. Do you really think that God has created all of us just to make us live in this kind of situation? To me, those things that have occupied your mind aren't worth it compared with the best gift Jesus has given to us. Which is LOVE.

Indirectly, all of our thoughts and way of thinking are influenced by every activity around us. Terrorism, for instance. What make 'em feel free of guilt doing those horrible things? Killing million of innocent life? It was HATRED. They hate their opposite. They feel insecure. Has it ever happened to you? Have you ever hated someone? I believe you all have. Maybe not as extreme as terrorist. But as a human, in a matter of fact, we all have the ability to both love and hate someone.

Hatred is not something that we should keep within ourselves. We have to eliminate it as far as we can instead. But it isn't so easy. One way to help you overcome this problem is this quote: You will never regret good things you've done to anybody ( whether if they are friends or enemies ). The thing that exists is you will always regret bad things you've done. Sometimes you can't forgive your own self for doing bad things.

Even if somebody does a bad thing to you, just take it easy and forgive them. That way, you are building pride for yourself. And you will never regret that you've done a good thing to someone who had hurt you. You will feel that you are someone with big heart who can reply bad things with good things. Maybe, you'll feel 'how stupid am i, doing nice things for bad people". Yes, that's human. But in the end, you'll never regret that. God will give you a big present for your big heart.

In other hands, when someone hurt your feelings and you can't get it out of your head, plan a revenge action and hurt him/her back. And for one condition, you finally realized that he/she had never meant to hurt you and for worse, YOU were the one who was wrong. What will you feel? What'll you do? Regret it and can't do nothing but apologizing? Sometimes apologizing doesn't always make you feel free from all of your guilt. Some guilt and regret are always being kept within ourselves. It's like the negative power has been saved within our subconscious mind. Something that can't be erased no matter what you do. So, love them all.. ALL!! No exception, no matter if they are liar, hypocrite, selfish etc. They are your FRIENDS!!

Live your life like you'll never live it another day. Actually, when you say that LOVE is no longer exist, we are terminally wrong. I got a quote which i thought very impressive. It was from the movie LOVE ACTUALLY. Hugh Grant says, "When you say that love is no longer around, and world is filled with hatred and greed i kinda get a strong feeling otherwise. When i see people in the arrival gate of the Heathrow airport, all i can see is love. Mother, Father, Daughter, Sister, Brother, Boyfriend, Girlfriend. When the plane strikes The Twin Tower. A lot of phone call comes, and no message of hatred. They were all messages of LOVE. So when i really think about it, i finally feel that LOVE is ACTUALLY ALL AROUND"


The point in all of these explanation is SHOWING YOUR LOVE!! Because loving someone is one of the best gift God has given in every single's heart. And your unspoken love is actually NOTHING!! The people you love will never know of you don't have the guts to do so. So don't just let it all go to waste.

I was one of the people who had contaminated myself with hatred and anger. To be honest, even for a person like me, i can build love. But sometimes, i love myself more than anyone else. But yes, i love a lot of people. One of the person i truly love is my grandfather. But in the past time, i always felt that he wasn't very good. A lot of time, i dislike him. He was a man who always been discipline and he was always trying to discipline people around him, including me who have a messy nature. I always leave things unattended and let my goods scattered all around most of times. Book should be placed in the shelf. Do not read while you're eating. Do not sleep too late to watch TV. Do not turn on the air conditioner while it was raining, bla bla bla. For me, those things were tiny and unimportant. But in other hand, my grandpa felt that if you wanna do well in huge thing, start from the tiny one. He always got mad at me for my unorganized habit. From time to time, i felt that i've hated him so much for all of his concern in tiny things. I've never know that i truly love him until He's taken away from me.

Since he suffered from cancer 9 years ago. I never felt that i hate him anymore. I love him. I've always cried my heart out for God to save him. But the problem isn't about building love. It is all about how hard it is for me to show my love to him. He once fell into coma. And i was shocked. I cried, i shouted calling him to wake up. Tears pouring like a river. Like i have a bunch of tears factory within my organ. But when he woke up, conscious. I couldn't show more love and gratitude for him. I have never kissed, hugged, and said how much i love him. Now, he has left. Those were hard to do, i was too shy to admit my love. Then he passed away last year and since that hard time on, i can never stop regretting. How i have never kissed him enough, hugged him enough and say 'I LOVE YOU'. If i could turn back time, i will hug him everytime i am home, kiss him and say 'I LOVE YOU, PAPI!' But there's no turning back. Regret is all that left. After he passed away, i made a permanent tattoo of his birth date as a tribute for him. If can't show him how much i love him, i can only show the world, can i?

Now that you've learned my experience, are you still gonna be shy and so selfish to express your love? have you shown your love enough to all the people surround you? Even the bad ones? Remember, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU GOT TIL' IT'S GONE.

One thing to ask yourself, "HAVE I SAID 'I LOVE YOU ENOUGH?"

Friends Crazy Fans, do u miss them?

Have u become a fan of friends serial? You know, the one starring Jennifer Aniston, Lisa Kudrow, Courteney Cox Arquette, Matthew Perry, Matt Le Blanc and David Schwimmer? I know it 's kinda old, but to me, it's still the greatest tv comedy of all:). It was ended on 10 seasons when Monica and Chandler Bing finally moved to somewhereplace leaving the full of memory purple apartment, their friends, and Central Perk. The closing act was so sad when they were going to have coffee for the last time in Central Perk before the Bings move. Watching the empty apartment which mostly all of the time filled with Monica, Rachel,Phoebe,Ross,and Rachel hang out together is just such a turn down. I'm gonna miss friends so much. It was a successful comedy, but why wouldn't Bright/Kauffman/Crane make a new season, with Ross and Rachel wedding maybe? They promised each other not to be separated anymore, so why don't they get married and be a legal parents for Emma? Are they gonna have another baby with name Ella, like Amy has always said. What about Joey, thinking about Joey is also sad realizing that he'll no longer take foods from monica's fridge. He couldn't hang out in mon's place. So where would he be? What about his future? Is he going to get married? Yea i know that they have produced a comedy titled Joey, but i gotta admit that it wasn't so funny. Joey is funny but he wouldn't be so much fun without the others, and also what about Phoebe and Mike? Are they going to have a baby too? Yeah i believe people who's a big fan of friends would want to watch the next season. Or maybe the movie. Like Sex and The City and The Simpsons. They've created the movie version and could be the end of all. Friends would be much better! Please please please. We are crazy of friends.

Terrorism Freaks!

Media is no longer efficient to be a watchdog. Sometimes it works for the government transparency keeper but for the McDonald case, half of the fault is on media. We have 2 to blame. Media and Mother fucker terrorist. Not so long before the Bali bombing's trio executed, the media has shown fucking crazy quotes that imam samudra said. Please continue our struggle and i'll meet u in heaven. What a pig turd! Before the mcd bombing, i've thought that it'll make sense if the Jihad wannabes will get influenced by the bullshit samudra said, and now this happened. Can we criticize that media has became indirectly responsible for this mess! Media, stop being stupid and so into profit! And jihad Moslem, you continue their actions, i believe u'll meet em..BURNED IN HELL

confuseee

i got an assignment to interview somebody with non or academics record. i wanna get Gisel Idol as my interviewee @ first. But she didn't seem to get serious. So i tried to find anybody else but her mom turned me down too. What am i supposed to do

what a hell

i'm in hell..in the world of vertigo and its pain

WROOONNGGGGGGG POSTTTIINGGG

My pHone is not exactly as smart as what i've been described.... Now, it doesn't work n the connection keep on failing... Aaaargghhh.. any suggestion what provider i should use??? Axis?? Because XL is keep bullshitting about all fatures but please don't believe the advertisement.. it was completely LIEE

Uuuhh... I think my new phone is pretty smart

I just realized that having a new phone isn't that bad.. well, maybe it is cheaper than my previous but actually, the internet speed is pretty fast... By the way, i feel like i wanna make money for living.. My priority is to find some student to be taught.. what do ya thinkk??

P.S: I hate somebody right now because she kinda feel like i tend to be dilligent and smart... what the hay, anyway?? I'm cool but i am smart.. Not idiot like her